Tonight I had a very weird emotion when I was talking to Jake. He was telling me about a straight friend that he interacts with. He described him as a “committed pervert” and then explained that he is in a committed relationship with a girl. At first I took this to mean that he was in a very strong relationship in which secrets would not be kept, but later found out that he has told his girlfriend nothing of what he and Jake do with each other. I feel bothered by this. If a committed relationship means that you hide half of yourself from the person you are committed to, is anyone every 100% truthful with the people they love. What relationship status means that there are no secrets and that you truly share yourself with another person?