Separation of Me and Him

I’ve tried working things out and letting him be a part of me. I have worked with great desperation to make him like…

Why Thyself Unknown?

The name “thyself unknown” stems from two basic philosophies, first “to thyself be true”, basically a command to always be truthful to yourself,…

Thoughts on Non-Reciprocal Interests

In a relationship, especially one among fetishists and the BDSM crowd, not every interest will be reciprocated. It’s just like any relationship, people…

Looking for Humiliation

I have never truly been humiliated, even though it is one of my interests. I am looking for things that can be done…

Getting in the Way

A friend of mine recently observed that when it comes to my experiences in fetish, or my lack of experiences as it has…

A Jock’s Progress

This isn’t my typical kind of post here. I am a bit timid about this actually. I invite my readers (the few of…

Truth in a Relationship

Tonight I had a very weird emotion when I was talking to Jake. He was telling me about a straight friend that he…

Uncertainty in Desires

How do I know what I truly desire? What is just fantasy and what do I have to commit to be completely fulfilled?…

House Plans of a Feitishist

If planning a house, where does one put the cell? Should it be in the bedroom to keep a close eye on the…