In the confines of identity
As a member of various fetish and BDSM communities I have been silent on the topic of identity related to those communities, primarily…
Category: Philosophy
The Dynamics of Dominance and Submission Relationships
During a casual browsing of my personal photo collections as well as several sources of BDSM imagery I have begun thinking about the…
The Boy I Want to Be
I want to be this boy. He is totally masculine, while also completely and entirely submitted to the man in the boots, or…
Separation of Me and Him
I’ve tried working things out and letting him be a part of me. I have worked with great desperation to make him like…
Transition to a New Identity
This blog used to be called “Sneaker Bitch”, as I used to associate myself with that identity and everything that it meant. I…
Jock vs. Athlete
One of my friends, David, was recently looking at some of the classifications I use to define statuses of my footwear. He ran…
Facing Unknown Fetishes
I found out this evening that someone I had gotten to know somewhat online has a fetish for “dress boots”. My first reaction…